'Was I selfish not to give my daughter a daddy?' Louise had a sperm donor baby at 42 and was happy to be a single mum, but now she sees the price her child is paying. My Mom and Dad live in Pennsylvania (an hour from where I am in NJ) and I love my Mommy & Daddy too. My dad also has strong hands being how handy he is, but also soft hands because he’s a Baker. 🙂 His hand is always in the dough. 🙂 I take after him with the baking and cooking from my Mom and grew up in his bakery. She came sneaking in the house around midnight. She was tiptoeing to the stairs. She knew she was supposed to be home two hours ago. Surely daddy would be sleeping now and she could get in bed before he knew she did not make it home by curfew.